
If you’ve been around a while you know Maybe Swearing Helps started out as a duo. Well with all good duos, sometimes they split and go there separate ways. And that is perfectly ok.
Because you still have me AJ aka your Minnesota BFF. I realize that life isn’t always unicorns and rainbows. No one can be happy 100% all of the time, if they are they’re either on something or lying to themselves. I am not perfect, you are not perfect, and together we can be perfectly imperfect. Life is messy. Life is hard. Life is down right shitty at times and if you are like me your rise as the whole damn fire.
No topic is off limits. We will discuss the good, the pee your pants funny, and darn right ugly moments of life. Each person we meet gives us a piece of ourselves that we didn’t know existed until we met them. You may not realize it in the moment. But one day their strength and drive could be the guide you need in the darkest moments of your life. All it takes is one hand to reach through and remind you that you’ve got this.
I have been through a lot of shitty things like; a terrible marriage, infertility, pregnancy loss, death of a fiancé, broken friendships, stroke, pulmonary embolism, heart disease, and so much more. When I share my stories it allows me to heal. I look back in awe and say “wow I survived that shit.” It’s my hope that you find comfort in knowing that you are not alone. That sometimes shitty things happen to good people. And that the darkness doesn’t last forever because the light always seeps in.

-AJ